Make Intimacy Work For You
Find Your Balance
Are you struggling to get in touch with your desires, express them, or follow them without shame? Is something coming in the way of your longing for closeness with others?
Or are you having trouble cultivating peace and contentment within, letting go of attachment to outcomes, and not relying on others to fulfill you?
Our relationships -or our search for partners- are often mirrors of where we are on these two journeys. They show us where we struggle and what comes in the way of our heart's desires.
What if you could have both? Creating and nurturing deep emotional connections, opening the door to limitless pleasure, expressing your Self to your fullest -AND- feeling whole just as you are, with tenderness for all the parts of you.
Are you ready for deeper intimacy?
Hi, I’m Valentin
I am an Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner & Intimacy Coach based in Brooklyn, NYC.
I use insights & techniques from the “Inner Parts” work approach IFS (Internal Family System) and from Mindfulness to help my clients get in touch with their desires, get clarity on how to get there, and cultivate a gentle acceptance of who they are and where they are at.
I also love writing & teaching about Communication, Emotional Resilience, Consent, Neo-Tantra, Kink, Polyamory, Spirituality, and more. Check out my blog, my insta, or the list of my workshops to see what’s coming next!
I am a long-time nerd -I am always curious about Consciousness Exploration, Healing the Psyche, & Sexuality. Before embodying these passions freely, I received a Masters in Engineering from Ecole Polytechnique in France, a PhD in Economics from Columbia University, and spent 2 years working in Management Consulting for a Top 2 consulting firm in NYC.
Now, I share what I think matters with the world.
“I’ve seen so much growth in the sexual & emotional intimacy with my partner since beginning working with Valentin.”
—Kendall, Cis Man, 35
“Valentin has helped me so tremendously. He provides a space for growth and learning that is safe and nourishing. I have seen great progress in not only how I approach my relationships with others but also how I love myself. Thank you doesn’t seem to begin to express my gratitude.”
—Vanessa, Cis Woman, 29
Curious if we’d be a fit?
Let’s chat to find out!
There’s no commitment, pressure, or obligation.
This is a simple conversation to get to know each other. If we decide to explore working together, I’ll then invite you to a free 1-on-1 coaching experience with me (I like to have some contact with people prior to offering a free session so that neither of us wastes time!)
Want to hear more from me first?
Every week I share free content on Instagram about Relationships, Sexuality, Mental Health, Growth, Spirituality, and more!
Follow me there to stay in touch, or check out my blog on Medium.
