Coaching
Are you struggling with Intimacy?
When we are not satisfied in our intimate lives, it can almost always be tracked down to a lack of connection.
It could be a lack of connection with your body - if you are not feeling as much pleasure as you may want, not desiring as much as you’d like, or not being able to have some of the experiences you’re longing for.
It could be a lack of connection with some parts of you - if you often find yourself struggling with conflicting urges, do not understand some your actions, feel some deeply rooted guilt or shame for some of your desires, or keep looking for fulfillment in sex or your partners.
It could be a lack of connection with your partner(s) - if you are not feeling heard, if you are having trouble communicating your needs, or if you have trouble finding someone who meets them.
No matter where you are starting from, I can help you identify what ails you and explore how you can recover agency, power, & authenticity in your intimate life.
I can help you reconnect with your Body, Your Inner Parts, & Your Partner(s)
This will allow you to feel more aligned and more in touch with what you want. It will help you gain clarity on how to ask for it and how to get it.
Meanwhile, it will also help you cultivate compassion for yourself and enable you to enjoy this journey from its first step.
My goal is not to accompany you for all of it: it is to empower you to continue that life long adventure in the most fulfilling way possible!
Their Stories
“Valentin has helped me so tremendously during our work together. He provides a space for growth and learning that is safe and nourishing. By holding me accountable to my words and actions in a gentle, caring way, I have seen great progress in not only how I approach my relationships with others but also how I love myself. Thank you doesn’t seem to begin to express my gratitude.”
— Vanessa, Cis Woman, Straight, 29
“Working with Valentin changed the way that I confront my past traumas and try to heal. He helped me visualize it in a way that I am able to utilize when I try to grow as a person. I’ve learned to forgive myself and that it’s important to take time to focus on my own pleasure in relation to no one but myself which is something I struggled with. His breathing and Yoni exercises made me appreciate my body in a way that I haven’t done in the past. It’s shown me that my mind and my body are capable of much more than I originally thought.”
— Alexis, Cis Woman, Straight, 24
“I’ve seen so much growth in the sexual & emotional intimacy with my partner since beginning working with Valentin. Ho holds a container where I can be open and vulnerable. I’m experiencing how loving and not shaming myself, my body, and my feelings/desires is expanding my capacity to more deeply give and receive love.”
— Kendall, Cis Man, Straight, 35
“Working with Valentin has been a wonderful experience and has also greatly aided in my healing of the Divine Masculine. Valentin holds space with patience, grace, and ease. He is a thoughtful and attentive listener and allows space for flexibility. I feel truly held and supported in my sessions with him. I can feel that he genuinely cares and wants to help me love myself in a deeper, more profound, and wholehearted way, to release trauma and shame, to explore more and experience true pleasure, to gain the courage to open my heart up to romantic connections, and to open my mind and being to new and endless possibilities of connecting”
— Sharisse, Cis Woman, Queer, 31
